Living as an international, bi-cultural family is rich and rewarding. However, one major challenge is that our family is spread about 7,000 miles apart across two continents and an ocean or so. Video calling is great, but there is really no substitute for spending time with people you love and building those relationships organically. Furthermore, J and H are bilingual, but their Korean language exposure is basically limited to their father–who is great at teaching them, but it’s not the same as immersion. We try to travel to Korea as often as we can for those reasons, but it is quite expensive and time consuming.
This summer, Min took J and H to Korea in late June. I joined them a few weeks later. With our commitment to repairing our finances, this will probably be our last trip to Korea for at least a couple years. While we are focusing on frugal travel practice, we are taking advantage of our time here to bond with friends, explore a different culture, and enjoy different experiences. I will blog about some of those experiences here.
On Tuesday and Wednesday, we rented a van with another family (Min’s close friend, wife, and two daughters) to travel to Asan, a small coastal city famous for hot springs and for being a place where Admiral Yi Sun-sin lived for a time.
We spent most of the first day at a lovely water park, Paradise Dogo Spa. The kids loved the variety of pools, slides, and activities. Given how crazy hot it has been in Daegu (the city where we are staying), it was very refreshing to spend most of a day swimming. Going on a random weekday when most Korean students were still in school meant that the park was not crowded. I learned that J is a crazy daredevil about water slides and wave pools, like the younger daughter of the family we were with. H passed out on the floor of the bathroom from exhaustion as we were preparing to leave. It was amazing!
The second day, we decided to go to Hyunchungsa, a temple dedicated to Admiral Yi (the picture above is of the old temple). Admiral Yi is one of the most beloved figures of Korean history. In the late 1500s, Japan attacked Korea (as it was wont to do periodically), and Admiral Yi gained fame by improving the design of a kind of war ship called a Turtle Ship because it could tuck all the extra bits behind its heavily armored hull and smash other boats like a battering ram while suffering very little damage.
I knew that part already, but I was very impressed with the other reason for his hero worship status as a military genius–his impressive tactical strategies. The display included extensive details from his personal diary where he designed formations that lured the enemy into a small area where the Yi’s Turtle Ships could circle around and destroy the enemy force with shocking efficiency.
It was scorching hot, so we only explored a small part of the beautiful temple grounds, but luckily the air-conditioned museum had lots of fascinating pieces from Admiral Yi’s diary and other artifacts. There was also an animated 4D movie demonstrating how the ships and attack strategies worked in real life battles. H loved it, declaring “Let’s watch that again!” J was very impressed with the strategy involved and the engineering of the boats (and, of course, the famous swords).
Along the trip, we also indulged in some of my favorite Korean tasty treats–rest stop fried potatoes, spicy tofu soup (sundubu jjigae), roasted fish (seonsangui), and sushi buffet (chobap)! Yum!
Korean road trips are great fun. When I lived in Korea (2007-2010), I frequently enjoyed this kind of trip, but with kids you see all of it in a new way. The enjoyment of this experience is an awesome reminder of why I am so interested in pursuing my financial goals. Our family is happiest when it engages with this kind of experience–building great friendships, learning about history, enjoying physical activity. This is worth giving up some less fulfilling spending and getting out of debt.